Start Before You’re Ready

Larisa - LoQueArde
Oct 2
2 min read

The First Spark of the Burning Blog

You won’t be ready. Ever

And that’s okay. Because “being ready” was the excuse: what was missing wasn’t courses, it was the courage to be seen and put your offer out there.

That stretch between what you leave behind and what’s not yet yours feels uncomfortable. It feels impostor, fragile, “unsuccessful.” That’s fine. Don’t force it to fit into everyone’s gaze—you can’t.

Some won’t value what you do, and that’s perfect; don’t give them your attention.

The Sweet Spot

It’s not about the impossible that paralyzes you, nor the easy things you can do almost without thinking. It’s that exact point where it hurts and yet you can still move one foot. Try there. Whatever comes out—bad, good, or weird—is already data for the next step.

Fear Isn’t Technical

It’s fear of the gaze. Still, you need to turn on the light. Say what you do and why you do it, even if you tremble. Those who are committed to misunderstanding you don’t deserve your attention. Earn silence so you can act.

Permission

No one signs your authorization. You write it yourself. It’s not about shouting prices or doing math in public: it’s about putting your offer into the world with clarity, even if minimal, and letting reality answer back.

Value ≠ Balance

Your low account balance is not your birth certificate. It’s a lagging indicator.

The mistake is to conclude “I’m not worth anything” because the balance doesn’t match. The order is different: you declare value, you offer real help, you let the exchange exist… and only then does your account reflect it.

Survival vs. Growth

If you live optimizing to “not bother,” you become invisible. You survive, but you don’t move forward. Choose growth: tell concrete benefits, tell a story showing how you lived it, open a door. Business or life—it’s the same. Showing what you offer is also choosing how to live.

The Loop

Doing just for doing is noise. Doing with criteria is path.

Action → data → honest reading → adjustment. The loop is never the same because you’re never the same.

Choice

You can keep shrinking to belong.

Or you can start even if you’re not “ready” and endure the discomfort that expands you.

The only way up.

Pick a sweet spot (something you “almost” can do).
Every other day: share real benefits + a true story + open a simple door of contact/continuity.
Write down what happens as data (not judgment): responses, doubts, objections. Adjust.

If you’re uncomfortable, you’re on track. It means you stopped optimizing for survival and started growing with constant feedback.

This is the first fire of the Burning Blog. There are no empty promises here. There’s company while you test, fail, and recalibrate. Step by step.

If you’re crossing that bridge and want to do it accompanied: follow this account @loquearde.digital. Bring your case to DM and let’s craft your first clear announcement today.

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